Alternative Albany

Submissives and slaves are these creatures who have low self esteem, can’t make decisions on there own, and need constant reassurance of the decisions they make. Dominants and masters are these creatures who have emotional damage in their past and need to be in control of every possible situation. Both of these types of people have chemical imbalances right?

I hope what I said above pisses you off. I hope I struck a nerve. Sadly though, that’s a common belief. The truth is its a belief both inside and outside of the bdsm realm. Many people think they are submissive because they have mental problems, and they are sadists because they are sick and twisted. Hell a great deal of people would agree with this right?

Well what if I say everyone who thinks that way is not only wrong, but they are way wrong and its finally been proven!

A recent survey was taken in Australia that has found those who enjoy bondage and discipline are not damaged or dangerous, and might even be happier than those who practice “normal” sex. In fact, men who take part may be happier, with results showing they score significantly lower on a scale of psychological distress than other men.

The researchers did not study why this was, but suspect it might simply be that they’re more in harmony with themselves because they’re into something unusual and are comfortable with that.

Alright for those who are not aware I am a bit of a drifter/roamer. I wander between a whole bunch of towns in the eastern central NY. I have been doing this for years now. Usually I travel down old country farm roads but sometimes can be found in towns like Catskill and Hudson. During my travels I have met many many wonderful people and had a great amount of intellectual conversations. Because of this, I frequently find myself talking about God.

Well one of the people I came across in my journeys has sense become an extremely close friend. Recently he has decided to try to see how life is through in my little world and for the last week or so he has been walking with me. On one of our walks the other day (mind you we walk about 500 miles a week) we started talking about women, submissives, slaves and the likes (he is intrigued but not fully into D/s). He started saying how awesome it would be to have a woman each at our side actually walking with us and living life the way god intended.

Now in the past I would dismiss such thoughts. I mean really who would want to live their life just walking from town to town sleeping where ever you find a place to lay your head, be it in a house, on a couch, in a bed, or in a tent on the side of the road. However he has opened my eyes that perhaps other would like to see how I live. Perhaps there is a girl or two out there who could handle living a bill free, money free, and carefree life and just walk around enjoying life for what it is without complaining.

I mean if there is a random guy who walks with me, why not a couple random girls right? Oddly enough, my instant thought was a kajira. A gorean slave, one who understands the barbaric ways that men have. I do not fully agree with all the principles that go into gorean life, nor do I consider myself gorean, however I really think a gorean slave would be a great choice. Gorean men are well known for being rough-ians. I am not the fighter type but I am the type who loves to live in the great outdoors that God left for us.

So what do you think about the topic? What if your master decided he just wanted to live off the land and travel with no plan, no car, and no real idea of where you might end up next? Could you or would you put up with such a thing? Would you consider someone who lives a lifestyle such as mine or would that just instantly end any interest you might have?

I really havn’t been around much lately. I have started a new business venture in sales and am trying to make some money that way because this site is barely making enough to support itself none the less me and two children. I will still update when I can but it may be a little less often these days.

I do have some stories about an anonymous friend who has found himself in quiet a situation but I want a few more details before I post on that. So hopefully everyone will be hearing from me soon. If you need to contact me, just post a comment, email me, or drop me a line on fetlife.

Also I fixed the front page so the enter now section, actually enters you into the site. Man I can’t imagine how many people left after clicking that. *sighs* oh well.

TTYS!

Its a new term I just learned this morning. It was a topic in one of the fetlife groups I belong to. I truly thought when I first read the topic “does this person mean frigging”? Well I was in for a bit of a surprise as I read all about figging.

Take some ginger root (as fresh as you can get)
shave it (till it is all white)
carve a handle in it so it does not get lost
and insert it in either the vagina or anus.

The ginger spreads warmth across mucus membranes. If you go deep enough (3-4 inches) inside your anus, the warmth will spread right to the famous g-spot.

I am told the older the ginger it is the hotter it burns. Most people like very fresh ginger but I imagine it depends on the level of pain the girl in question likes. Also according to a source who has claimed to have done this activity, be prepared for MANY orgasms, up to three days after the activity she says. Soaking the ginger in water (do not use lube) will minimize the burn (unless it is older ginger root - which is more aged and pungent) and will also ease insertion (again, do not use lube).

I have also heard of using various types of onions and peppers for this, most popular seems to be chilli peppers. Also I keep reading about using various forms of the power on the outsides of the roots before inserting.

I guess we learn something new everyday. So have you any additions to make to this type of play?

I have had quiet a few discussions on various forms of pet play however one topic seems to reoccur more then any other. The topic is always about where to get kitten gear. Now as I have said in the past, the pet store is always the best place to start, however some people like more stylish and fetish looking gear. Thats why I was really surprised when I found this lovely cat mask for sale. I figured I would post it for anyone into cat play. Let me know what you think!